Okay so we can all agree that boobs are everywhere. It's impossible to escape them. Hell, I have a set of my own and they aren't exactly easy to hide. I personally love boobs. I'm not a lesbian, but I think it's healthy to think women are beautiful and to enjoy the female body for what it is. I think people are afraid to admit that they think someone is good looking. You can find someone attractive and not want to have sex with them. For example, many of us find our mothers beautiful. Not only physically beautiful, but they have a special bond with us that give them more beauty. I can openly admit a girl is beautiful and hot and the thought of "being" with her does not cross my mind. I feel like guys  should be the same way. Guys who can admit that this or that actor is good looking has more man card points in my book than a guy that's like "ew yer so homo." Thinking that people are attractive or aesthetically pleasing to look at doesn't make you attracted to being intimate with that gender/person.

So I can freely be like "hey guys, that chick is hot. I love her tits." My boyfriend loves big boobs and I love big boobs and I'm glad I have a pair and when I see other pairs I'm like "YEAHHH!!!" Not out loud but in my head I wanna do a high-five, but not with the hands. ;D

When you watch movies or tv shows or if you go out to a festival or beach, maybe even playing video games or going to cosplay conventions, boobs are everywhere. Little ones, big ones, secured ones and bouncing around ones. They are all different and amazing  and only women get to have the luxury of being born with them! Men can acquire ones, but meh....

So at a convention you'll see tons of girls cosplaying and 99% of them will have their cleavage popping out and into your face. One could turn an innocent costume into a slut in 5 seconds with just cleavage showing. Now, I don't know if people realize this or not but a lot of guys attend conventions and a lot of guys like boobs. So when you put a lot of girls showing off their boobs in front of a lot of guys who like boobs and the characters they portray, you can expect guys to say things to girls and girls to guys.

What I wanted to talk about is people who claim they're feminists and preach about how women should have equal opportunity and rights to be sexual and to like the same things guys like. A woman should be free to roam around and show off whatever she wants. While at the same time, they also preach that girls who show off their bodies or sell sex or do things for attention etc... are being oppressed by the lust of men and that they shouldn't be required to show off their bodies to be wealthy or successful or beautiful to men.

The big thing that I wanted to point out is that when a girl makes a costume that originally little to no cleavage and in turn shows up with a shit ton of cleavage she was INTENTIONALLY making it sexy. You can cover your puppies up, regardless of size and make the costume work. So when a girl shows off her tits it's because she wants to. When she puts on an outfit that makes her look provocative and sexy, she is aware that guys might hit on her and say dirty or inappropriate things. They know that men are sexual and that women are sexual and maybe they're sexual themselves. What is the problem with a girl showing off her body? If that's what she wants to do and she CONSENTS to it, then there's nothing wrong it it. It's not like she is going to act surprised when a guy walks by saying "nice tits" to her. She knew that the possibility of it happening at a CONVENTION was 99% likely. I understand that a girl should be able to go to a convention dressing sexy without men hollering and speaking their sexual thoughts to her but covering up her boobs may/may not solve the problem and I feel that women should be allowed to dress sexy if that's what they want to do. It sometimes sucks having guys cat call women all day long.

So really the solution to this is that it requires the men and the women. Men should enjoy women as they have been but maybe not be so vocal about it. And women should be able to dress how they want without women or men jumping down their throats about being sexy or ruining a character or demoralizing themselves. If a girl wants to show a boob, let her. It's her body. You can look away.
And if you like boobies, look at them. She put them out there for a reason!